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Mindfulness Of Emotions

Simple effective strategies to help you become mindful of your emotions - to notice the thoughts and feelings that accompany emotions, without responding to them or allowing them to take over

 

We often start to learn mindfulness skills by focusing our attention on our breath, our bodies, the environment or activities. We can practise being mindful, and eventually, we can learn to start being mindful of our emotions.


Being mindful of emotions helps us to stand back from the emotion, understand it, accept it, not to fear it or struggle against it, and it can have the added benefit of reducing the distress (although the aim is to learn to accept the experience, rather than lessen the distress).

Set aside a few minutes when you can be quiet and undisturbed.

Start by bringing your attention to your breath. Notice your breathing as you slowly breathe in and out, perhaps imagining you have a balloon in your belly, noticing the sensations in your belly as the balloon inflates on the in-breath, and deflates on the out-breath.

Notice the feelings, and what it feels like.

 

Name the emotion

  • What is it?
  • What word best describes what you are feeling?
  • Angry, sad, anxious, irritated, scared, frustrated etc

Accept the emotion. It is a normal body reaction. It can be helpful to understand how it came about.  What it was, the set of circumstances that contributed to you feeling this way. Do not condone or judge the emotion. Simply let it move through you without resisting it, struggling against it, or encouraging it.


Investigate the emotion

  • How intensely do you feel it?
  • How are you breathing?
  • What are you feeling in your body? Where do you feel it?
  • What is your posture like when you feel this emotion?
  • Where do you notice muscle tension?
  • What is your facial expression? What does your face feel like?
  • Is anything changing? (nature, position, intensity)

What thoughts or judgements do you notice? Just notice those thoughts. Allow them to come into your mind, and allow them to pass. Any time you find that your mind is engaging with the thoughts, by  judging them or yourself for having them, believing them, struggling against them:  just notice, and bring your attention back to your breathing, and to the physical sensations of the emotion.

If any other emotions come up, if anything changes, simply notice and repeat the steps above. Just notice that the feelings change over time.

As you become more practised, you can use this mindfulness technique when you feel more intense emotion.

 

NOW: Mindfulness Exercise - video

 


APPLE: A Mindful Response to Thoughts and Feelings
- video

 

 

Mindfulness

Mindful Breathing

NOW  - Mindfulness for Busy People

APPLE:  A mindful response to thoughts and feelings

The Visitor   Mindfulness exercise

Mindfulness Rationale

DRIFT

Mindfulness Of Emotions  - this page as PDF

 

 


 

Self Help Books Using Mindfulness


Mindfulness: A practical guide to finding peace in a frantic world
The Mindfulness and Acceptance Workbook for Depression


The Mindful Way through Anxiety: Break Free from Chronic Worry and Reclaim Your Life


The Mindfulness and Acceptance Workbook for Anxiety: A Guide to Breaking Free From Anxiety, Phobias, and Worry Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life


Full Catastrophe Living, Revised Edition: How to cope with stress, pain and illness using mindfulness meditation


Peace Is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life

 

Useful links

Mindfulness

Mindful Breathing

NOW  - Mindfulness for Busy People

APPLE:  A mindful response to thoughts and feelings

The Visitor   Mindfulness exercise

Mindfulness Rationale

DRIFT

Mindfulness Of Emotions  - this page as PDF

Books


Mindfulness: A practical guide to finding peace in a frantic world
The Mindfulness and Acceptance Workbook for Depression


The Mindful Way through Anxiety: Break Free from Chronic Worry and Reclaim Your Life


The Mindfulness and Acceptance Workbook for Anxiety: A Guide to Breaking Free From Anxiety, Phobias, and Worry Wherever You Go, There You Are: Mindfulness meditation for everyday life


Full Catastrophe Living, Revised Edition: How to cope with stress, pain and illness using mindfulness meditation


Peace Is Every Step: The Path of Mindfulness in Everyday Life

 

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